When Life Feels Heavy: The First Step Is Not Action — It’s Permission

Patricia Gallet • September 9, 2025

Healing begins the moment you allow yourself to feel.

When life becomes overwhelming, our instinct is to “fix it,” push through, or hurry our way to a solution. But this only makes the heaviness grow.


The first step toward healing isn’t action.

It’s permission.


✨ Permission to feel what you feel.

✨ Permission to stop pretending.

✨ Permission to not be okay for a moment.

✨ Permission to breathe.


Healing isn’t a race.

It’s a loosening.


And sometimes the tightest knots in our hearts only soften when someone says:


“You’re allowed to feel this. You’re allowed to be human.”


If you’re carrying something heavy, please know this:


You don’t have to carry it alone.

There is space here for your truth, your tears, your confusion, your hope — all of it.


You’re not a burden.

You’re a person doing their best.


And that is beautiful in itself.

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